The Jarus Family

OMG! So much to catch up on!

2009-12-02T19:30:00.012-06:00

Basically, because I am such a bad blogger, here is 3 months in pictures....

We acquired a gorgeous bunny. Her name is Luna and she is wonderful. She hops around the house and it completely potty trained. She goes in a litter box just like a cat.

Jonathan was Buzz Lightyear for Halloween. Carly was the Wicked Witch of the West and our dog that looks like Toto was wearing a costume so she was Dorothy.

We raised some baby chicks for a month.

It was fun and the kids learned a lot from it.

I knitted the kids sweaters. :)

Jonathan had his first sleep over with his cousins, Juan.

Palin, Emme and Lulu.

I thought I'd knit a Honda hat for Tom to inspire him to sell more cars.

I knit a hat in the shape of a fish for Jonathan.

I just couldn't resist this pic.

Carly and Palin sound a sleep. You should see her when all three of the dogs are sleeping up next to her. I don't know how she sleeps like that. But, she loves it.

We had a wonderful visit with our friend, Lucas and Mindy. Lucas loves Ms. Carly.

Carly had her 10th birthday party at Monkey Joes.

Long time with no update

2009-08-29T19:07:00.001-05:00

Today is the three year anniversary of Jon Jon's adoption from Vietnam. I doesn't seem possible for it to be 3 years. But, it also feels like he has been with us forever. The pic above is from the first night we got home. Jonathan and Carly did not quite know what to think of one another. I just love this pic. It's the first pic I have of the two together. I was so happy to finally be able to hold both my children at the same time. Finally, we were all together. It was so hard knowing Jonathan was in Vietnam without us. Then, it was so hard being in Vietnam without Carly.

Jonathan is 3 1/2 today. He is a little thing but so handsome. I always tell him he's a 'handsome devil'. Below is one of the first pics I received of him. I was totally in love with that face for 4 1/2 months before I could get him in my arms.

A summer of fun!

2009-07-20T20:16:00.012-05:00

We went to Branson this summer. All of us enjoyed a playful time on bumper boats.

Carly and I were patriotic and got our toes does for the 4th of July. Do you think I need some sun?

Jon Jon waiting for Sissy and Daddy to come down on the water ride.

You can't see Carly but she is behind Tom.

Jonathan and Cousin Owen got to see the Monster Trucks.

Most of us before we went into Silver Dollar City.

Tom took Carly on the go carts. She really liked it despite the fear on her face.

We went to a restaurant that played jokes on people. This table slowly was rising as we were eating. It was so slow that Carly did not notice the table was above her elbows. It was too funny!

There is always time to knit....even when on vacation.

Jonathan started preschool. Marianna already goes so the transition was easy for him.

Even their coat racks are by each other. Apparantly, they nap together and eat together.

For years, I have had a frame that has an engraved message about four generations and the traditions we will make. My family has been bugging me because the fake photo was in the frame for literally two years. It took me a long time, but we finally got a pic of all four of us. This pic is now in our frame....no more of the fake family.

Field Trip

2009-06-07T12:07:00.005-05:00

School is out for the summer. YEAH! Carly begins summer school next week. Summer school here isn't like summer school when I was a kid. Here it's fun and all the kids go. It's free day care!!!!!

Last week, I went with Carly's class on a field trip to the Botanical Gardens. The kids dug around in dirt and looked at a lot of plants. I found it boring but the kids loved it surprisingly.

Carly looking at bugs on a piece of dead wood.

The group I was in charge of!!!!! It's amazing they all came back alive.

I got a new washer and dryer. This is totally exciting. It does about 3 loads of laundry at a time as compared to my last set. It's awesome and soooooo quiet.

We also got a new fridge. But, they delivered the wrong one. They will replace this one in a couple of days with the right one. Pretend it's black. It's huge and awesome!

Kids are so literal!

2009-05-08T00:17:00.003-05:00

Yesterday, I was suppose to take Carly shopping for a gift for her teacher for Teacher Appreciation week. But, I was not in a good mood as I got a ticket, right by the house, on my way home from work. When Carly asked me if we were going shopping, I replied "no, I have to spend my money now on a lawyer to fix this stupid ticket I got."
Fast forward to tonight.....Carly and I were sewing pillow cases for her teacher's gift tonight. I thought that since Carly is learning to sew and her teacher just got married, a nice gift would be some pillow cases. I think teachers probably get so much crap and lots of knick knacks from their students. But, how many get a useful gift made for them by their student? Anyway.....once we were done sewing the pillow cases, Carly said she is going to have to explain to her teacher that she did not lie. I asked her what she lied about. She tells me she colored her teacher a picture today and gave it to her because we can't afford to buy her anything since I have to spend all my money on a lawyer to fix my ticket!
Now those charming pillow cases aren't so charming. Now they look like I can't afford a gift. Next, we'll be on welfare!

Here's a pic of those damn pillow cases.

I'm a bad blogger....

2009-05-03T22:56:00.005-05:00

I know I haven't posted in a month but if you look below, you will see why. We have been really busy.

I made a quilt. It's pretty big....about 5 by 7 feet. It's a throw for the couch but could really almost fit a twin bed. I am very proud of this quilt. After I make another one to match (I have two couches), I am going to start a quilt for my bed. I hope I am not getting in over my head.
I also have a knitting project in the works. Since I knit a sweater for Jonathan, it's only fair I knit one for Carly. I am about 1/2 done so I will post pics once it's completed. She picked out the yarn and it's a pretty teal color. Mostly importantly, it's machine washable. Yeah!!!

Jonathan has learned to help his dad cut the grass. He is in love with his lawn mower. He thinks he is a big boy. His lawn mower shoot bubbles out as he 'cuts the grass'. Speaking of big boy.......we are potty trained!!!!!! You have no idea how excited I am.

Carly is taking sewing classes and made herself a pair of pajama bottoms. She is a really cute model!

Carly also learned how to ride a two wheeler. She really did it by herself. Just a lot of practice up and down the street.

The dogs are still spoiled.

We dog sat for my friend over the weekend. Carly and Bear bonded. I swear....I really think Carly is the dog whisperer. Dogs just love her.

Jon Jon is still too cute!!!

I went to a book signing with a friend. Debbie Macomber writes books and has a series about a knitting group. Once Diana told me about it, I had to go.

My friend Carie and I took our boys to see Thomas the Train. Jonathan was so excited he did not move or speak for 90 minutes. At first I couldnt' tell if he even liked it. He was emotionless. But, once it was over, all he said was "Let's watch it again". I think he liked it.

Here is Jon Jon and Juan in their Thomas T shirts before the performance. Jonathan was not very happy that all the trains did not make an appearance. He really wanted to see Toby. I told him Toby was taking a nap. I did not know what else to say. What we mothers have to come up with sometimes:)

So, you see, we have been busy. We are ready for the summer. Things will really start hopping then.

A new sweater!

2009-04-06T20:24:00.003-05:00

Look at the sweater I knit for Jonathan....It's a bit big but it's meant for next year.

Carly is my next victim.

The Bicentennial of Lincoln's Birthday

2009-03-22T21:11:00.008-05:00

Carie and I took our kids, the older ones, to see all the cool things about Abe Lincoln in Springfield, IL this weekend. I really think Carly learned a lot and has a better understanding of why Lincoln was probably the best president ever!

A young Lincoln

A replica of Lincoln's Log cabin in Indiana

Lincoln's married home in Springfield, IL

The Presidential Family. They had 4 sons. Three of which died before adulthood.

A replica of the White House.

The outside of the tomb

Lincoln is ten feet down and in a steel concrete vault. He is extremely secure as attempts were stopped in the late 1800's to steal his body.

Happy Love Day!

2009-02-14T08:51:00.006-06:00

This year, both kids had Valentine Parties at school. Carly doesn't have a particular love interest, but Jon Jon does. He says he loves Sarah. She is a little 3 year old in his preschool class. When I talk to her, she tells me she is Jon Jon's girlfriend. It's too cute.

I attended Carly's party at school this year. Apparently, I embarrassed her when I greeted her by saying "Hi, sweetheart." I guess there will be no more PDA because she is too old for that. I was told I can only hug her and kiss her at home. :)

Jon Jon turns three and we have a white belt

2009-01-12T20:25:00.012-06:00

Jon Jon turned three this weekend. We had a Diego party and he raked in the loot.

Carly earned her white belt this weekend after months of training in Tae Kwon Do.

And, the dogs have been bad so they were put in doggie jail.

Sorry it's been so long....computer problems

2008-12-30T22:21:00.010-06:00

A few days before Christmas, we all went to a local adoption group's Christmas party. This was our second year and it was again a great event. It's a pot luck dinner and then magically, Santa appears and gives presents to all the kids.

Look who showed up???

Carly and Jonathan patiently waiting for their name to be called.

When Jonathan's name was called, he wasn't shy!

Carly loved her gift. Santa just knew she'd been eyeing this book for weeks.

Afterwards, this is what our house looked like.....all peaceful and sleeping.

Merry Christmas!

2008-12-10T20:00:00.005-06:00

Sunday, we happened to be going (wink, wink) to the store to shop for more Christmas presents. All of a sudden, Santa arrived on a firetruck.

I guess I need to fess up and admit to everyone that we have inherited another dog. Her name is Palin (as in Sarah Palin....I did not name her. She was already named). A friend of mine just got her about a month ago and couldn't keep her as she unexpectedly got a job relocation. I was dog sitting for a week and fell head over heels. So, now she is staying and she is all mine.

We'll miss you, Grandma Cella!

2008-11-19T18:17:00.002-06:00

This morning, Grandma Cella passed away after a battle with lung cancer. We thought she would be here a bit longer (through the holidays), but Grandma heard God calling and went home rather suddenly. We are all relieved that Grandma's suffering wasn't as long as we had originally thought it would be. Grandma was 93 and lived to see her 6 great grandchildren.
WE WILL MISS YOU, GRANDMA!!!

Just some pics...

2008-11-01T20:54:00.009-05:00

Knitting Daughter

Messy Son

Beggar Dogs

Cute Emme Lou

Sun bathing Lulu

Happy Halloween

2008-11-01T08:54:00.005-05:00

Pumpkin Patch

2008-10-19T17:54:00.013-05:00

A long overdue update

2008-10-18T11:03:00.010-05:00

In the last month there was a birthday. (Carly turned nine)

Some knitting....

And a bit or remodeling....

Sibling love

2008-09-15T20:42:00.002-05:00

Jonathan and Carly have tried many times to have a 'little sleepover' in Carly's room before. Usually, it ends up with Jonathan being removed from his sissy's bed for talking and playing until the wee hours of the morning.

But, this weekend, we had a successful 'little sleepover'.

This picture could melt a mother's heart.

A weekend of knitting and relaxation

2008-09-07T20:33:00.008-05:00

This weekend, nine of us from our Tuesday night knitting group spent the weekend at a Bed and breakfast. We sat around knitting, shopping, eating and just having fun.

We had 4 bedrooms and a kitchen. With nine of us, we kind of just went from room

to room visiting and knitting.

The kids were at my in laws so I did not have to worry about them at all. But, I did knit for them a bit.

I made Carly a very grown up hat.

Jon Jon got a hat with polar bears on it.

2nd Adoption anniversay

2008-08-29T08:09:00.004-05:00

Happy adoption day! This pic is of Carly and Jonathan our first night home. Both are in a bit of shock, as you can see. Now, 2 years later, Jon Jon can't get enough of his 'sissy'. Carly is a typical older sister and sometimes likes Jon Jon and sometimes gets mad because 'he's a baby and in my stuff". Gotta love sibling love!!!

Tae Kwon Do

2008-07-26T18:38:00.003-05:00

Carly and I joined a mommy and me Tae Kwon Do class. Carly is really good and really cute in her outfit. I, however, feel like I have pulled every muscle in my body. .....and, there will not be a pic of me in my outfit!

CHI Reunion

2008-07-13T20:56:00.002-05:00

This weekend CHI, our adoption agency, had a reunion. They do this every year in the summer. Mindee and Lucas came from Quincy, IL. Joe and Cathy Rascke came from Chicago with Nicholas. Lucas and Jonathan were adopted on the same day and they were in our travel group. Nicholas was adopted a week earlier so the Rascke's traveled a week or so earlier. All the boys came from the same orphanage in Vinh Long, Vietnam. It was so nice catching up with everyone and so so so cool to get the boys together. They will have a unique bond their whole lives so I hope we can continue with yearly visits. We did some reunion events and then all went to dinner Saturday night and then the zoo on Sunday.

This baby girafee was born about 3 weeks ago. How would you like to give birth to something that big?

This little leopard was born 2 months ago. He was too cute!

Carly fed a girafee a leaf. They have really long tongues. I have very fond memories of feeding girafees and being licked by them as a kid about Carly's age. Their tongues are really rough.

Carly was spectacular with the boys all weekend. All three totally are in love with her. By her keeping the boys entertained, the adults had a very nice time catching up. Who knew Carly good be such a boy magnet to three two year olds?

At the zoo, we rode a blue train. Jonathan was so excited because he thought it was Thomas the train. At every cross road, he wave to all the spectators. He was really excited and too cute for words.

Jon Jon and Lucas together

Three very happy families. From left to right:

Joe, Cathy and Nicolas Rascke

Mille and Lucas Miller

Joy, Tom, Carly and Jonathan

Carly reading a bed time story to Lucas and Jon Jon.

4th of July

2008-07-05T20:33:00.007-05:00

Today, we just hung out together as a family. My parents and Tom's parents came over for some BBQ and fireworks. Both kids did not care for the fireworks. I guess they were a bit too loud.

Since Daddy was off the entire weekend, we decided to go to Grant's farm on Saturday. Carly and Jon Jon loved feeding the goats. The weather was beautiful. It wasn't hot or humid. Who would have guessed that to be the weather in St. Louis in July?

This is the bird I want some day. I doubt I will ever own it because it'a about a $10,000 bird. It's called a Hycanith Macaw. Better known as the "Gentle Giant".

This is probably the bird I will end up getting. It's a blue and gold macaw. They are only about $1500....much more reasonable. I need to wait until the kids are older so they can inteact better with the bird. Before we got Jonathan, we had an African Grey. But, we had to find him a new home when we decided to adopt. I think our bird would have bitten off Jon Jon's little fingers.

Grandma's birthday

2008-06-30T21:04:00.008-05:00

My Grandma (Granny Grunt, I call her), turned 84 this week. All 20 of us trekked up to Grandma's on Sunday. It's about an hours drive and delivered dinner. Well, at least we tried. The day did not end up as it was planned. My mom forgot the dessert, then I dropped the lasagna on the floor and then my sister spilled tea all over my Grandma. We ended up having to eat out b/c the lasagna was on her floor. But, the worse part was that the dish was so hot (the reason I dropped it was b/c her pot holders were super thin) it scorched her floor. I felt really bad, but I guess accidents happen.

We did get some nice pics of the family.

Swimming fun and a big boy bed!

2008-06-18T12:54:00.007-05:00

Daddy helped Jon Jon play T ball. He loves baseball.

Sissy and Jon Jon dancing with a Playstation 2 game.

Carly and her cousin at a swimming pool.

Carly and Lulu ready for bed.

Jon Jon now has a big boy bed. Last night he kept climbing out of his bed. I was worried he was going to get hurt so he slept with me. Needless to say, I did not get much sleep. So, today I insisted Tom convert the crib to a toddler bed so I can sleep tonight. Let's just see if Jon Jon stays in it.

Weight Loss update: It's been almost a month since my weight loss surgery (WLS). I have lost 20.5 pounds. I know this isn't much more since my last post but it seems I gained 5 pounds a few weeks ago. I was really upset about the gain but my Dr. said I was dehydrated and the 5 pounds is water from rehydrating myself. That made me feel better. Now, I am hydrated and lost a real 20.5 pounds. It's coming off very slowly but I think that is good. It took years to get this way so I guess it should take a while to come off.

I'm a lazy blogger

2008-05-28T22:29:00.006-05:00

I have been so bad about our blog! I have so much to tell you......

First, our basement finally got finished so Jonathan finally got to play on the train table the Easter bunny brought him.

Carly, Jonathan, Tom and I attended our annual Stitch n Pitch Cardinals game.

Carly started wanting to rock Jonathan and put him to bed at night.

And finally......I had weight loss surgery on 5/21. I haven't blogged about it because I was sure insurance would fall through again. But, it didn't and all went very well. The surgery and recovery were very easy. I feel great and have already lost 16 pounds in just a couple of weeks. I don't feel hungry and fill up after just about a 1/2 cup of food. It's awesome! I won't lose weight at the speed much past a month. After this, it'll be a typical weight loss. I don't have a goal in mind. I just want to be healthier for my kids. That is my only goal. Here's a before pic. I will try to post pics occassionally through my progress. Please excuse the fact that my hair is not done and I am not wearing make up. This was literally 2 hours before surgery and you can't have product in your hair or make up on. I am sure the after pics will be much better.....at least I hope.

Just a few of my favorite things....

2008-05-03T09:47:00.009-05:00

Our bird, Coconut

Boating with my kids.

A good baseball game.

Nana and JoJo. Mama and Papa, too. (I just didn't have a pic of them.)

Halloween

Our Daddy.

Sex and the City. I can't wait for the movie.

Pretty yarn.

Scented candles.

A good book.

Anything handmade. Especially hand knits.

My Boo Boo girl with our puppies.

A clean Jon Jon

Emme Lou

LuLu with Carly's Magic Bear

Grandma Mary was in town....

2008-05-01T21:45:00.000-05:00

Tom's mom was in town all week. We went to dinner a lot and spent some time together.

This is why I was late to work this morning

2008-04-14T21:04:00.003-05:00

Weekend sleep over

2008-04-12T22:56:00.005-05:00

Cousin Leigh-Ann is spending the night so we popped popcorn and watched movies.

Daddy is not happy that Jon Jon stole the last of the popcorn. You're too late, Daddy!

Ready to cast on for the 2nd sock

2008-04-05T20:51:00.004-05:00

My first sock in this colorway is complete. I am now ready to cast on for it's mate. This sock was done in Colinette. The colorway is "Marble" from the Jitterbug collection. It's very soft and feels fabulous on my foot.

While I finished up my sock, Jon Jon watched a Thomas movie on the couch next to me. He can't watch a Thomas the train movie without his Thomas blanket.

Carly was in her room. She has been very unsocial lately and wanting 'privacy'. Usually, I just find her in there playing with her barbies. I think we are growing up a bit. I don't like it. I want them to stay babies forever.

No more stitches at the end of our rainbow

2008-03-31T19:21:00.003-05:00

Carly got her stitches removed today. She was a trooper and did not complain one bit. I am so proud of her. The Dr. said that over the next 6 months her scar will fade.

It rained all afternoon, but when we got home from the Dr., we found a beautiful rainbow in our backyard.

An easy going weekend

2008-03-30T20:06:00.005-05:00

I did some knitting and started a new sock. I'll post the finished product later.

Jonathan watched Thomas the Train on You tube.

Jon Jon is the newest member of a gang. He is in a gang of 2 year olds that meet Monday through Friday at Aunt Jill's while Mommy is at work.

Emme dug in the dirt. She is no longer a white dog.

I don't have a new pic of Carly but felt I had to post something. Tomorrow we are getting our stitches out so we will post a new pic then.

Friends

2008-03-29T08:55:00.002-05:00

11 stitches needed

2008-03-25T20:49:00.006-05:00

Yesterday when I was picking up Carly from school, she slipped and literally fell into the hinge of a steel door. At first, I did not think she was very hurt because I did not see any blood. But, then she moved her hands from in front of her face and I saw a huge open head wound. I scooped her up and tried to rush her right to the hospital. However, there was so much blood, I couldn't figure out how to drive and apply pressure to the gushing head wound all at the same time. Thankfully a wonderful teacher drove me and Carly in our car to the hospital while another teacher followed behind in her car. While driving, we managed to call Tom. I think I freaked him out because I couldn't really talk and all I said was "meet me at the hospital....it's Carly's head." After 4 hours in the hospital, a wonderful plastic surgeon stitched up my brave girl. And on Monday, when the stitches come out, she will be just like new.

This is Carly right after we got home from the hospital. You can see a faint line going down the left side of her month to her chin. That's the imprint of the door.

This is Carly the next morning. We were able to take off the bandage and allow the stitches to 'air out'. You can see her chin is much more bruised and her lip was busted, too. What you see on her throat is an old temporary tattoo that is starting to come off.

Carly's best friend, Amanda, and her mom sent Carly a wonderful bouquet of flowers with balloons and a teddy bear. I thought that was so thoughtful.

Amanda even made Carly a card. It was the sweetest thing. She wrote to Carly that she would protect her if anyone made fun of her at school. I teared up when I read it. These girls have been friends since preschool. It was really sweet. I will have to keep the card as part of Carly's keepsakes.

Jonathan's new do

2008-03-23T17:23:00.004-05:00

At lunch, I turned my back for a moment and turned to find that Jonathan gave himself a new hairdo. He thinks ketchup is the best hair product around.

Easter Bunny was here....Hippity, Hop!

2008-03-23T17:09:00.007-05:00

All the cousins got together for their annual easter egg hunt.

A flood

2008-03-22T18:36:00.005-05:00

This week I was on vacation and did not have any fun!!!!

Tom and I woke up on Tuesday morning to a very flooded basement. Overnight, our sump pump died and since we got 5 inches of rain that night, our finished basement flooded. So, all week, we have had workers from the insurance company trying to salvage the contents of our basement. And, keep in mind that in the last month, we just redid the entire basement except for carpeting. We painted, got all new furrniture and bought a plasma TV. We have to wait until next week to see what Allstate deems is not salvagable. It's been a long week and I think I am ready to go back to work.

Somehow during this crappy week, I managed to take the kids to the mall to play for a bit while it continued to rain outside. But, I only got to take 2 pics before Security stopped us. Taking pictures in the mall is a violation of Homeland Security. It makes sense, but who knew???

A new puppy

2008-03-09T13:27:00.004-05:00

Lulu has been very lonely since Hopie passed. We thought another puppy would help lift her spirits, and ours.

Lulu is a little jealous whenever Carly holds Emme. Lulu thinks Carly is her mommy and does not like to share the attention. But, in time, she will adjust and grow to love and want to play with Emme.

Here is Jon Jon very carefully holding Emme. She is 8 weeks old and it a Shi-con. That's a cross between a Shit-zu and a Bichon. She is totally adorable.

Hopie is now in Doggie Heaven

2008-03-02T21:33:00.004-06:00

This week we lost our Hopie dog. She had some serious kidney issues and we thought it best to let her go to Heaven. The vet was not sure she would make it through surgery and after looking her in the eyes, I just couldn't put her through all that. She went very peacefully.
We love you, Hopie!

Brother and sister just hangin'

2008-02-25T18:31:00.000-06:00

Jon Jon's birthday party

2008-01-13T19:09:00.001-06:00

Welcome to my birthday party. I'm two!!! And, I love Thomas the train. Really, I think Percy is the best. He's the green one.

Mommy had this cake made just for me.

I love to sit in Papa's lap and help him fix things.

Look at my train. I love it!!!

While everyone sang "Happy Birthday" to me, I got a little shy.

But, I blew out the candles like a big boy.

The cake was delicious. I think I look cute in my conductor hat.

Daddy and Sissy played with me and my new train set.

More presents!

2007-12-30T23:24:00.002-06:00

Every time I turn around my kids are getting more gifts from family and friends. Carly received a cool Hannah Montana game and a Polly Pockets game. She was suppose to be getting ready for bed (thus the sweet dream eye cover) but was caught playing instead.

Jonathan got a "Thomas the train" couch from Ma ma and Papa. He loves sitting in it like a big boy and watching his Thomas movies. I can't believe he'll be 2 in a week and a half. He's not a baby anymore....he's a toddler.

Here he is saying "Cheese" just as the camera went off. It looks like he's yelling but he wasn't. He was posing.

Merry Christmas!

2007-12-26T18:58:00.001-06:00

Santa was very good to us this year. Carly received her much desired webkin and Jonathan got his Elmo garage.

Sled riding

2007-12-16T16:45:00.000-06:00

"This looks like fun!"

Ready, set, go!!!

What goes down must come back up.

All tucked in!

2007-12-13T21:05:00.000-06:00

Happy Thanksgiving!

2007-11-25T21:03:00.000-06:00

I have not been good about blogging lately. Just too much going on. Thanksgiving was great! We all have a lot to be thankful for again this year.

Just a quick couple of pics and we are all off to bed after a full day of Christmas shopping.

Say "cheese".

Sleeping yorkies...

Hopie after too much turkey.

Another puppy makes three!

2007-11-04T20:36:00.000-06:00

Ok.......I know I have lost my mind, but we have added to our pet family. A friend of mine from knitting could no longer keep her Yorkie. Being the insane person that I am, I talked Tom into letting us have him. His name is Mickey and he just turned one. He really isn't any trouble, but I think 3 is our absolute limit. With 3 dogs and a bird, there is now as many pets in the house as people.

Lulu, Carly and Mickey

Jonathan can't pronounce Mickey so he calls him "Geeky"

Mickey, Carly and Lulu

Happy Halloween

2007-11-01T09:12:00.000-05:00

Big Sis reading to Jonathan before we went out to Trick or Treat.

Audi, Carly, Josie and Gabby

Trick or Treat....smell my feet. Jonathan could actually say "trick or treat" for every house.

Marianna, Jonathan and Owen. Owen did not like the head of the costume. Marianna is wearing Carly's costume from when she was two. I can't believe she was ever that little.

Carly and her best friend since preschool, Amanda. Carly was a ghost (in case you couldn't tell). Jonathan called her a boo boo ghost.

My little Elmo.

If you show me yours, I'll show you mine.

Pumpkin Patch

2007-10-14T20:51:00.000-05:00

On Sunday, we went for our annual grandkids day at the pumpkin patch. My mom takes all the grandkids to the pumpkin patch for horse back riding, train rides and a petting zoo. It was a blast.

Jonathan decided to relax in Sissy's protective arms.

Sissy coming down the slide.

Jonathan coming down right after Sissy shows him how.

Then Daddy decided to take a turn.

Carly riding her horse. She's a pro!

Jonathan riding for the first time. He wasn't that excited.

Boo Boo and Jon Jon.

Our happy family!

Jo Jo and Jonathan

Anyone wants some popcorn?

2007-10-13T20:15:00.000-05:00

Marianna, Owen and Jonathan sharing some popcorn with Tom. Hopie and Lulu are looking for scraps.

Carly's birthday...She's eight!

2007-10-02T14:50:00.000-05:00

I can't believe my baby is 8. Wasn't I just pregnant with her yesterday?

My mom and I took Carly on her first road trip this weekend in honor of her birthday. She went to the American Girl Store in Chicago.

3 full floors of dolls and their accessories.

Carly picked out a new doll for her birthday...Nicki

We had to admit her other doll, Kit, into the doll hospital. Our dog chewed off her fingers. Ouch!

We took Nicki to eat in the American Girl Cafe. She had her own serving plate and high chair. Very cute!

Tom is 40!

2007-09-24T18:34:00.001-05:00

This weekend, we had a surprise party for Tom. He turned 40 on 9/20/07. I actually think Carly and I kept the secret from him.

Sharon and Jerry with Tom and the kids.

Carly and Marianna: Best buds!

Father and Son

Grandmother and grandson.

That's a lot of candles

My nephew had tooooo much fun.

Apple picking

2007-09-15T19:19:00.001-05:00

Today we went apple picking with our cousins. It was a lot of fun. When we got back home, we made apple and spice cake. MMMMM....good. The weather was so perfect!

This is the only picture you will see of Juan because he doesn't sit still long enough to have his picture taken.

Carly, Gabby and Audi petting Bambi.

Audi, Carly, Josie and Gabby on the tram to take us to the orchard.

Carly, Josie, Audi and Gabby on a carnival ride.

My two 'lumps of love'.

Carly, Gabby, Josie and Audi sitting on haystacks.

Cousinly love!

Carly's school musical

2007-09-11T19:16:00.000-05:00

Carly had a speaking part in the school musical. She was fantastic!!!

Labor Day!

2007-09-03T21:34:00.000-05:00

We went to Grant's Farm today and saw some of the MDA telethon. We went with Jill and John and Sharon and Jerry.
It was a lot of fun, but very exhausting.

Jerry, John and Owen

Marianna and Carly

Sharon, Tom and Jonathan

Owen was totally tuckered out by the end of the day. On the way home, all the kids fell asleep except for Carly.

Carly's new tank top

2007-08-28T07:37:00.001-05:00

I spent all summer working on this tank top for Carly so I had to show it off. She's finally getting to wear it the last week of August. Not great planning, huh? A pretty model is what makes it look so good.

Happy Gotcha day!!!

2007-08-27T09:34:00.000-05:00

Today is the one year anniversary of Gotcha day. Here are some pics from that awesome day.

This pic is of our first photo shoot together. He was a bit nervous because Tom and I were grabbing for him and cuddling on him. Excuse the shiny face, please. It was really hot!

This was Jonathan's nanny. We were told she really loved Jonathan and favored him. I really appreciate that someone did love him those first 7 1/2 months. You can see tears in her eyes in this pic. After she handed Jonathan back to me, she immediately walked out of the room. I think she was overwhelmed.
This time last year I was really missing my Boo. I couldn't wait for Jonathan to meet his big sister. The phone calls home every other night helped a little but it did not replace real snuggling. I remember if we called at night she would answer "good morning" and vice versa since the time difference was 12 hours.

Reunion

2007-08-26T19:14:00.001-05:00

In honor of the 1 year anniversary of the boy's adoption, we met up with Mindee and Lucas. It was so nice getting the boys together. We went to the Science Center. There wasn't a lot to do for the boys but they had fun running around for a couple of hours.

They sure have grown in the last year.

This pic is from Vietnam last year. Our babies were so little then.

Too cute for words!!!

All the kids had fun running up and down the hopscotch. Every time you ran on a number, it made a musical note. You should have heard the music in us!

Happy Travel Anniversary

2007-08-24T07:47:00.000-05:00

One year ago today, Tom and I left our home and travelled to Vietnam to get our son. This is the first picture I ever saw of my son's precious face.

I remember being so excited that I thought I was going to bust. I had dreamt of him for so long. Since April 5th, 2006 we had his picture. We put pictures of him all over our house while we waited those 4 1/2 months to travel to bring him home.

But, on the other hand, I was sick. I did not want to leave my precious daughter for 3 weeks. It tore my heart out leaving her. I will never forget saying goodbye to her in the driveway. I wanted to smuggle her onto the plane with us. But, I knew it was best to keep her safe and at home with Nana and JoJo. I have never missed someone so much in my life. While it was one of the most exciting times in my life, it was also the hardest.

Now a year has gone by. I can't believe Jonathan has been with us for an entire year. But, at the same time, it seems just like yesterday that we left to bring him home.

I know Jonathan's birth mother will never read this blog. But, I would love to be able to tell her how much the baby she carried is loved. The gift she gave my family will never be forgotten. I just wish I could comfort her by telling her that Nguyen Trung Thanh is well taken care of and spoiled rotten! In my heart, I know she put him in the hands of God knowing he would be ok and someone would come along and love him. I am sure she loved him so much she let him go.

This little boy was meant to be my son. It's absolutely surreal thinking about how my two children came into my life. I could just have easily bore another child instead of Carly and been assigned to another child besides Jonathan. If anyone doubts in God, they just need to look at my family. This is proof that God's hand is in my life.

Brother and sister getting to know each other.

It's funny when it's not your kid!

2007-08-22T21:40:00.000-05:00

I'm going to tell you a tale of a little girl who is just like her mother.

This morning, Carly was getting ready for school and wanted to wear flip flops. I told her 'no' because it was gym day at school. So, she grabbed some footie socks and started to put them on. Again, I told her 'no' and told her wear normal bobby socks. (Footie socks slide down when she's in gym class from all the running they do. I actually had a reason and wasn't just on a mom power trip.)
I'm not sure why but Carly started crying and getting herself all worked up saying she did not know how to put on bobby socks by herself. Now, keep in mind she's going to be 8 next month so I know this is her way of fighting me for control. Unfortunately, she was talking to the wrong person as I am a complete control freak.
Being a good mom with a lesson to teach, or maybe just being as equally pig headed as my daughter, I told Carly that if she did not get her socks on by the time I was ready to leave, then she would be grounded. I gave her warnings about every five minutes just to prove that I wasn't joking. During this time, I can hear her mutting under her breath on the indignity of being a kid and why should she have to listen to her mom anyway. It's her life and if she wants to wear footies, she should be able to, right?
So, on the last five minute warning, I walked into the kitchen only to find Carly cutting her bobby socks, with my good scissors, and making them into footies.
Now, I know most people's first reaction is to laugh. But, I immediately was so angry because she thought she was going to beat me at my own game. I think not. Not only did Carly get grounded, but she had to wear her mangy, cut up socks to school today. After calming today throughout the day, I realized I might have gone too far by making her wear her self made socks to school. But, on the bright side, I bet she gets her socks on the next time it's gym day in a big hurry.

Here's a pic of the mangled sock in question.

On another note, Tuesday was picture day at school. Since pictures weren't being taken until after lunch, I decided to get a couple of quick shots at home. You never know if lunch stains will be able to be retouched. So, here's pic of Carly on Tuesday morning. She looks very grown up and totally beautiful. To me, she looks just like her dad. I tell Tom all the time he'd make a good lookin' woman.

4 cousins and a weekend of fun!

2007-08-18T21:04:00.001-05:00

This weekend, Tom and I are watching Jill and John's kids (my sister and brother in law) while they are in Branson for the weekend. So, we have 3 kids ages 2 and under. Today Tom had to work all day so I was by myself all day. Really, Carly helped out so much! We went to the mall and then dinner. Had baths and then in bed by 9pm. What a day!

Carly and Marianna taking a bath.

Jonathan and Owen taking a bath. Jonathan is still terrified of baths. But, having Jonathan in the tub with him really calmed his fears.

We bought Jonathan's Halloween costume this weekend and Marianna wanted to try it on.

Daddy and our Vietnamese Elmo.

JoJo with Elmo and Owen. Owen thinks Elmo is really funny.

This is my 'little lump of love'.

Carly and Marianna watching a movie instead of taking a nap.

Owen couldn't make it until nap time. I found him crash on the floor at 11am taking a siesta.

High School Musical 2 (HSM)

2007-08-18T08:44:00.000-05:00

Last night was the premiere of High School Musical 2 (HSM). In honor of the successful HSM1, Carly hosted a party of 6 girls. The event was a success as the girls danced around thre living room to the finale song.

Get Motivated!

2007-08-16T20:39:00.000-05:00

Today, I got to attend a motivational semiar. Some of the speakers were George Foreman, Suze Orman, Steve Forbes, and Colin Powell. Colin Powell, by far, was my favorite. I think he truly is an American Hero!!!

George Foreman

Suze Orman

General Colin Powell, former Secretary of State under Regan and Bush Sr.

Stitch n' Pitch

2007-08-07T21:24:00.000-05:00

Carly and I went to the baseball game last night for the first annual Stitch n' Pitch. A bunch of people from my knitting groups and other knitting groups all went to the game last night to cheer on the Cards. Not many brought their knitting as it was way too hot! But, I did snap a pic of one lady knitting.

During the 5th inning of the game, the Cards scored 10 runs. But, I missed the whole thing. Carly convinced me to go buy her Clydesdale at Build a Bear. So, we were in the Build a Bear store during the whole thing. I only saw it on TV.

Jonathan stayed with Nana last night because it was just too hot for a baby. But, we did buy him a Fred Bird at Build a Bear. When we got home, he promptly kept calling it "Elmo".

Here's a pic of So Taguchi. You can't really see him but I had to get a shot of him because he's my favorite player. Go, So!!!

A visit from our cousins

2007-08-02T21:15:00.000-05:00

Tom's and my nephews are in town and spent the day with us. We don't see Connor and Lucas enough. Here is a great pic of all the cousins together.

A knitter's model and Harry Potter

2007-07-23T20:45:00.000-05:00

I am knitting up some baby hats. While knitting, I wasn't sure how big to make it so I tried it on Jonathan.

My next project is a Harry Potter inspired scarf for Carly. On Friday night, Carly and I went to a midnight Harry Potter party at Barnes and Noble. They had a lot of kid projects and activities for little ones. Then we stood in line for our book. I was number 150 since I reserved my book about two months ago. We were home and in bed by 1am. I have not started the book as I still have to read 5 and 6. I got a little behind. But, I'll get there. While we were at the party, everyone had Griffindor scarves so Carly talked me into making one for her. Once it's finished, I will have to post a pic.

Night-Night!

2007-07-22T22:16:00.000-05:00

It's 10pm on Sunday evening and everyone is sleeping.

1st day of school

2007-07-19T19:56:00.000-05:00

It seems like yesterday that my baby girl was starting kindergarten. Now she is in the 2nd grade. We met Mrs. Black and she is a really nice teacher. She likes a lot of communication so I think we will get a long just grade. Best of all, Carly really liked her.

I'm a little sad that before you know it, my baby will be off to junior high........

As a kindergartener....

As a second grader....

How time flies!

A relaxing weekend

2007-07-16T22:19:00.000-05:00

This weekend we spent both days out on the lake. Carly loved swimming and Jonathan loved feeding the 'duckies'. Forgot to take the camera out on the boat so I took some pics of Carly showing Jonathan the "Doodlebops" web site. What a great big sis!

Even the dogs chilled out this weekend.

A Week of Updates

2007-07-07T17:18:00.000-05:00

We had a low key fourth this year. Usually, we have a lot of people over and BBQ. It always is a late night. Except this year. Jonathan's circumcision was Friday so we decided to keep things low key. We attended the O'Fallon fair and then called it an early night. On Thursday, we took possession of our boat so we had to go for a quick boat ride. Then Friday morning, Tom and I were at the hospital before 6am for Jonathan's surgery. Everything went well and I'm really glad it's over. He is already running around the house and being his true self. He was in some pain on Friday but today, he's totally fine.

Tom and Carly on a ferris wheel.

This was Jonathan's first 4th of July as an American.

My mom acting crazy and entertaining the grandkids.

Our first family boat ride.

Carly driving the boat.

Jonathan and Mama. He did not let go of that cookie the whole ride.

Daddy jumped in for a quick dip.

I almost forgot.....on Tuesday, Carly and I had date night. We went to see the Lion King musical. It was so totally awesome. I really hope whoever was in charge of costuming won an award. It was absolutely unbelievable. If you have the chance, you must go see it.

Carly with the Lion King playbill.

We are boat owners!!!

2007-07-01T20:21:00.000-05:00

This weekend was a big weekend for us. We finally decided to buy a boat. Now, it's not a great big or brand new boat. But, it's exactly what we need for a family with two small kids. We will offically have it later this week. So next week you will see pics of the Jarus' on the water. Because I love to sew and knit and Tom loves to fish, I proposed we name the boat the 'Stitch and Fish'. Tom thought it was funny so you never know. That name just may stick.

We took the kids to Bass Pro because Jonathan needed a life jacket. Carly already had one that she uses on PaPa's fishing boat. Of course, it's a Barbie life jacket. But, this is Jonathan's first boating season so he had to get one right away. He was so funny when we put the jacket on him. He loved it and started dancing. Because it was so bulky and he only weighs 19 pounds, he promptly fell over and could not get up.

"HELP! I've fallen and can't get up!"

He's just a cute pic of Jonathan watching his favorite TV show......"Elmo's World"!

Hair cuts

2007-06-24T19:12:00.000-05:00

Saturday, both the kids got hair cuts. It was the 2nd for Jonathan and a whole lot more than that for Miss Carly. Both looked adorable when it was all said and done. They put Jonathan in a fire engine chair and he watched a video so he would sit still. Whoever thought of that idea was a genius. Once Carly saw that, she wanted to watch a video, too. So, Carly watched 'Shrek' and Jonathan watched 'Cars'. They put Carly's hair up in a hair headband. It was awesome! And Jonathan's cut makes him look like a little boy, not a baby anymore.

Sunday, Tom took Carly and her friend to Six Flags for the day. That's a Super dad! I stayed home with Jonathan and we just had a quiet day to ourselves.

Happy Father's Day

2007-06-17T19:33:00.000-05:00

Today we hosted Father's day at our house. Jill's bunch, my mom and JoJo, Sharon and Jerry, my grandparents and Grandma Cella all came over for some present sharing and BBQ. Tom and Jerry cooked up some pork steaks on the grill.....they were delicious.

Great Nana and Marianna swinging together.

Sharon's birthday was Friday so she got a DVD player.

Bamps got the Barcak Obama book and Granny got the Hillary Clinton book (it's her birthday next week). I'd hate to be at their house during the Primary Debates.

We gave Jerry some waders for his next big fishing trip.

JoJo got a gift certificate to his favorite coffee house and some shirts. Marianna had to help him open his gifts!

Tom is reading a special card that Carly made just for him! She was really proud of herself. Later, he opened his IPOD.

Just a cute shot of my kids. They are the reason there is a Father's Day!

Lulu goes to puppy classes

2007-06-03T20:44:00.001-05:00

Today, Lulu attended her first puppy class. It was pretty uneventful. Carly went with me and we praticed sitting and loose leash walking. Loose lease walking is trying to get the puppy to walk along side you and not tug at the leash. By next Sunday's class, we have to accomplish sitting with a treat. There's a reason I call Lulu "Lucifer". I'm not sure this is going to work, but we are going to try.

Here's Carly and Lulu in class.

On Saturday, Marianna came over and watch a movie with cousin, Carly.

These goofy dogs keep climbing on the picnic table in the backyard. Who knew Hopie had that much energy?

Memorial Day

2007-05-28T21:04:00.001-05:00

As always, we attended the Union Memorial Day Parade with Sharon and Jerry. The bank where Sharon works blows up a ton of balloons and then we walk in the parade passing them out to the little kids. For the past 5 years, we have participated with Carly always very eager to pass out the balloons. This year, the Hren's joined us. And, it was Jonathan's first Memorial Day parade....really first parade ever.

After, we went back to the Jarus' and ate and just sat around enjoying the beautiful day outside. Of course, Carly talked Papa into getting out the tractor and giving rides. Tom and Jill also tooks the kids out.
Overall, it was a very fun and relaxing day.

Jill, John, Marianna and Owen

This was Jonathan's first parade.

At the end, we stop and watch the rest of the parade.

Jonathan's first ride on the tractor with Daddy.

Carly was an old hat at driving the tractor.

Carly won a Kumon award

2007-05-24T21:02:00.000-05:00

Today, Carly won an award for improved reading with Kumon. She has been attending Kumon twice a week for 6 months to improve her reading skills. We are really proud of her!!!

Bark in the Park and a Birthday party

2007-05-20T18:36:00.000-05:00

On Saturday, I took Carly and Jonathan and Lulu to Bark in the Park. It's an annual fundraising event for the Humane Society. The kids really have fun. Carly loves showing off Lulu and there are plenty of activities for kids and adults alike. The event was held at Forest Park. I was amazed at how well behaved all the dogs were. Also, the owner's were very well behaved, too. There weren't any little presents to step in. All owners really picked up after their pets. We got Lulu microchipped and bought a mix to make homemade dog biscuits. I don't cook but I'm going to make homemade dog biscuits. A little ironic, don't you think?

Lulu has no fear. She is nose to nose to a 130lb English Mastiff.

Those are two spoiled Yorkies.

Early Sunday morning, like 5am, Tom and Carly ventured to Mama and Papa's house to fish. I thought for sure that Carly would not get up but she she was up and ready to go. She caught a really big fish, Daddy said. When Carly got home, she told me the fish almost pulled her into the lake as she was reeling it in, but Daddy saved her. Daddy always comes in for the rescue.

Later Sunday afternoon, we all went to Aunt Jill's and Uncle John's for Owen's birthday party. He turned 1 a couple of weeks ago but this was the first opportunity to have a party with Mother's day being just last week.

Happy Mother's day

2007-05-13T20:36:00.000-05:00

Today was my first mother's day with Jonathan. I thought a lot about his birth mom today. I am sure she is thinking of him and missing him so much. I would love to be able to thank her for this awesome gift she gave my family. And, to let her know that he is safe and so loved. Yesterday, while surfing the net, I found a beautiful poem someone wrote to their adopted child's birth mother. I have adapted it for my use.

Beyond Your Tears

I imagine you kissed his sweet face so round
And gently placed him in his hospital crib so sound
I imagine your heartache, your pain and your tears
I wish I could show you and soften your fears

I’d show you a boy with hope in his eyes
A boy who loves 'the Bops' and sweet lullabies
A boy who laughs freely and loves to play
A boy who hugs often and dances all day
A boy with a future, so funny and smart
A boy who loves music, reading and art

A boy who I hope has your courage one day
I know it took courage to love and walk away
His beautiful smile, I wish you could see
He looks like you and laughs like me

So, imagine his laughter, Imagine his touch
I wish I could show you he’s loved so much
Remember his face, Remember that kiss
And when you cry,remember this...

Beyond your tears, Beyond your pain
Sometimes the sunshines through the rain

And I know that he’ll ask me about you one day
I’ll tell him you loved him and wished he could stay
I’ll help him remember and imagine you, too
when he starts to wonder and dream about you
We’ll look at the moon, I’ll give him a kiss
and when he cries, I’ll tell him this...

Beyond your tears, Beyond your pain
Sometimes the sunshines through the rain

by Shana Rae
Copyright © 2006 Shana R. All rights reserved.

Carly was so excited to about her gifts to me. She made pot holders for myself, Nana, Mama and Aunt Jill. Also, she made me a beautiful card to tell me she loves me. Tom bought me a beautiful charm necklace with the word "Mom" inscribed on it.
Overall, a perfect day!

Fun Fair and knitting!

2007-05-06T07:21:00.000-05:00

On Saturday, Sharon and Jerry (Tom's dad and step mom) came down for a day with the kids. Sharon and I took Jonathan and Carly to her school's fun fair. They empty out the cafeteria and gym and load it up with games for the kids to play. It's a really nice fundraising event for the PTO. Even if the kids don't win at the game they are playing, they still win a small consolation prize. There were even games Jonathan could play. And Carly was very sweet and helped her brother with some of the games. Carly ended up with a lot of little trinkets....just the kind of thing she loves!

Jonathan has been sick this weekend with a chest cold. So, I think every pic of him was with a pacie in his mouth. It's the only thing that makes him happy. Also, he isn't sleeping so well right now. Thus, this 7:30 post.....we've been up since 5am. That is not like Jonathan. I usually get to sleep until almost 8am because he's such a good sleeper.

With Jonathan sick, I've been getting a lot of knitting done. I've just finished the first sock of my trekking #80 yarn. These socks are for Carly. Now I have to cast on for the second sock. I definately get SSS (Second Sock Syndrome). I want to cast on for a blue and taupe yarn that I just purchased. But, if I don't finish Carly's sock then I'll never get it done. Sort of like the shrug I've been knitting for over a year........

Introduction

2007-04-22T21:19:00.000-05:00

My name is Joy. I am married to a wonderful man and we have two children. Tom and I have a biological daughter and an adopted son from Vietnam. Carly is 7 1/2 and Jonathan is 15 months.

Tom and I are so happy and feel our family is now complete with the addition of our son. Carly had some adjusting to do as she was an only child for 7 years. However, she now dotes on her brother and they have the occasional sibling fight.

We have just added a new pet to our family. Lulu is a 4 month old Yorkie and she is totally Carly's baby. Jonathan doesn't much care for either of our dogs or our bird. We also have a bichon, Hopie, and a cockatiel, Coconut. I can understand why Jonathan doesn't like Lulu. She is often found stealing Jonathan's pacie and trying to hide with it.

Carly is in 1st grade; almost now in second. Jonathan is babysat by my sister while Tom and I are at work. It's very nice having my sister and her family in the same neighborhood as us. Jill puts Carly on the bus in the morning and Jonathan gets to spend the day playing with his two cousins, Marianna (2) and Owen (almost 1). My sister also babysits for my other sister, Jenny. Michael (2 1/2) is the big kid in the group. I don't know how Jill does it, but she does a great job at it. Jonathan is very loved and well cared for. It's very nice not having a stranger care for our son.

Anyway, enough about us. I am hoping to keep up this blog as a journal of our family. However, I don't know if I will update every day. My goal is to update once a week. Let's just see and how it goes.

For now, I'll just post some cute pics of the kids. You'll probably be seeing a lot of pics of the kids....I think they are adorable!!!

Joy